Dildo Sizing Guide Choosing the Right Length and Width

Think sex toys for him, including masturbators, pumps, cock rings, and so much more. A dildo is a phallic-shaped sex toy that can be used for internal stimulation and simulates penetrative sex. They come in realistic versions where the veins, penis head, and testicles have many small lifelike details. But you can also find other versions that are more simple, made of glass, or in vivid colours.

Notably, pairing the two was straightforward, and harmonizing the stroking and rubbing motion on the clitoris seemed more effortless than with other dildos. Lastly, the suction cup base felt more stable than all the squirting dildos we tested. We tried it on different surfaces, and it clung on firmly, even in horizontal positions like the shower walls and the fridge. Whether you want to explore lesbian penetrative sex or pegging, the Big Shot’s suction base also means you can enjoy harness play. There’s so much attention to detail in the design (image above) we mistook it for a real penis after unboxing it.

For solo play (or partnered play not involving a harness), it’s all about finding a position where you can reach the dildo and move it in a way that you like. If your dildo has a suction cup, Howard recommends attaching it to your toilet seat so you can ride it or sticking it to the shower wall so you can thrust back on it. “It can help you have more control over the insertion, how deep it goes, and the rhythm,” says Howard.

So if you have questions about products or services, or you’re having trouble deciding which dildo best suits your and your partner’s needs, feel free to contact our customer service team. They are ready to guide you through the vast jungle of sex toys. You can also learn more about the products in the various dildo guides on our blog. If you’re new to dildos, start with a design that makes your first experience easy and enjoyable.

For example Inflatable Dildo, you can put butt plugs, vibrators and dildos on the harness and alternate during penetration. A inflatable dildo is a model that you can inflate yourself to a desired size thanks to a handy hand pump. When inflated, this dildo gets bigger in both length and width. A model from this category is suitable for people who are more experienced with these toys. They make you feel full and can be used anally and vaginally.

The average penis size is often used as a benchmark for selecting the right size dildo , but it is important to note that there is a wide range of sizes considered normal for men. In fact, the average penis size is approximately 5.1” in length and 4.6” in girth. However, the best size dildo for you is one that you find comfortable and enjoyable, regardless of its size comparison to the average penis. So maybe a small realistic dildo can be the best starting point. Choosing the right size dildo can be a challenge for many, especially for those who are new to sex toys.

While in some cases, you get what you pay for, “there absolutely are sex toys for under $50 that are safe and well-made,” says Wright. Many of the budget-friendly options below are great for beginners, as luxury toys can have too many intimidating bells and whistles. Our favorite palm vibe, the Le Wand Point, has a sleek stainless steel handle and an uber-soft ridged silicone tip. The heavier steel end allows the toy to provide more pressure than an all-silicone option, Finn previously told SELF. Other nice-to-haves include an intuitive button display, a travel lock, and a fully waterproof design (shower sex, anyone?).